Tuesday, September 21, 2010

3 Things in Building Healthy Relationships.




There is an expression "Show me your friends and I will show you your future" meaning that relationships do affect your life and eventually it will shape your future. Right and healthy relationships bring good effects while bad and negative relationships destroying your life.

In the contrary, it is not wise for us to think that it all happens by themselves, everything happens just because they are meant to be, because it is not. Things happen most of the time because we chose them to be. We are the one who are responsible for the relationships health.

I have 3 things in building healthy relationships with our loved ones:

1. Be grateful. Thankful for the relationships we have with our friends, family, and of course our couple. They are the light in our life when we feel down, they are the one who accept us when we are in low condition. Being grateful enables us to see things better. We tend to be more focus on things that really matters and not sweating on the small stuffs.

2. Spending time together. I think this is all that we sometimes missed. We think that we can substitute the togetherness with gifts, flowers, money. It can help but not entirely. We have the most precious thing in our hand which is time, but we tend to use it for our business and work and we think we can just bring gifts to repay our existence. Quality time together with our loved ones is essential and vital.

3.Faithful. All the good things mentioned above are nothing without faithfulness. Faithful in your words and your deeds. It is the key for every relationships. In business, work environment, love relationships, family relationships even criminals need faithfulness of their fellow partners in order to make it work.

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