Thursday, March 31, 2011
I have often pondered on this very question as to how it feels and whether a lady can find it ok to date a less perfoming man. By this adjunct, I refer to men who vulgarly, are tagged a 'one minute man.' It could really be very frustrating when one finds herself in such a situation, but then, as always said, shit happens. As such, the face off afterwards is what concerns the ordinary mind. Hence, the woman who has found herself in such a situation has †ђξ following options;
1. To stick with the man and bear with his plight.
2. To leave
3. To help him find help
4. To make the situation get more difficult.
You can see how difficult †ђξ situation is!
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
A complete dissatisfaction in relationship between couples is quite a familiar trend these days. However, an interesting study has come up in support of these infidel link-ups. According to various expert psychologists, men who keep mistresses can really improve their marriage true or reliable fact.. lets have a view of this situation.
Experts say, men who are still very much in love and it can be liberating for women. Infidelity is not merely a proof of love. It is just a source of completing your sexual desires which you are not getting from your partner. So, when it comes to changing your marriage then it becomes very difficult to decide. As love and desire are two different aspects. Love is beyond desires.. it is something which is very sacred and on the other hand, you force yourself to love to complete your desires. Thus, when it comes to reliability, then you stand by your spouse. And, its just that most of the couples are working so they hardly have any time to share some romantic thoughts with each other. Some women say that since they work in office most of the times, so its quite obvious that they may get attracted to their colleagues. And men often defend their affairs by saying that their wives work in different cities to attain higher positions, so whats their fault.. and if having an affair, which can satisfy them and can change their mood, then its not wrong at all. But again there is still a bunch of couples who still believe in the trust factor. They say having an affair is a mockery of faithfulness in a relationship. They further state that if an affair is to be judged by the number of affairs you have then why to get married.. if you want to enjoy life without any responsibility and commitment then stay single and enjoy anything without fear and stress. There is no need to be a cribber all the time. So, at the end of the day its up to you that how you presume things and how well you feel with these extra-martial affairs. As after all, its your conscience t
There is nothing more frustrating than seeing a beautiful woman that you would love to talk to, but knowing that you would never have the balls to approach her. You may have come up with various excuses at the time, but the fact of the matter is that you were too scared of rejection to approach her. What makes it so sad is that you didn't actually have to fear rejection, if you had just read this article a little earlier, you would already be with that gorgeous woman. It's okay, though; now that you are here, you can be secure in the knowledge that there will be nothing standing between you and the next gorgeous girl you meet except the distance that separates you. Read on to learn all you need to know. "- Make her think about sex". throw the subject of sex at them without any warning whatsoever, women are more inclined to throw you into the pile of rejection right away and erase you from their memories for good. If you do things in a gradual pace through various sexual innuendos, she will be more ready for sex later on and not think about rejection at all. So, every time you talk to the woman that you want to bed, make sure you slip in some sexual innuendos every now and then so that she will know you have an animalistic side to you after all. Be careful with this, though, as you do not want to overdo it or she will think the sex is all you are in it for. "- Control her mind." but if you've reached the point where you're looking at articles online for advice, what do you have to lose? The good news for you is that this is guaranteed to work. The better news is that it works in 15 less. Once you've controlled her mind using hypnosis, you will be able to get her to do anything you want, so why not give it a try?
Monday, December 13, 2010
Are you worried about your marriage, saying to yourself my wife is not attracted to me, what do I do?
If so then it's important that you don't make the mistake that most men make in this situation.
This article will tell you the number one reason your wife is not attracted to you, and at the same time exactly what you need to do to recreate that attraction at warp speed.
Why You're Saying My Wife is Not Attracted to Me...
First off I want you to know that I know exactly what you're feeling. It wasn't long ago at all that I was having the same exact thought. My wife WAS losing attraction for me, and very quickly.
Why? Well I'm pretty sure it's for the exact same reason that you're saying my wife is not attracted to me. It almost always comes down to this whether it's at a time when you're out on the scene picking up women, or when you've got a girlfriend, or are engaged, or married. Attraction is attraction, and it actually works the same way throughout, with minor changes.
The One Way to Make Your Wife Attracted to You Again
You need to realize something right now.
You are doing things that are making your wife lose attraction for you. In fact you've probably been doing them since you got married, maybe even before.
In fact your wife actually doesn't even realize why she is no longer attracted to you, and worse thinks and will tell you, and her friends that the reason the wrong thing things that she actually wants you to do and be.
It's tough to be a man!
Now I want you to really think about that last sentence...especially the last word in the sentence. MAN!! If you're saying my wife is not attracted to me, then it's likely because she doesn't see you as the MAN that she once saw you as. In order to have been attracted to you in the first place, then she had to have noticed some Alpha male qualities in you!
By primitive instinct she saw you as the man that would be the king of the cave, and that would lead the family and protect them. This is all hardwired into her genetics...into her biology. You can't change it. The only thing that you CAN do is to play into it.
The only way to make your wife attracted to you again is to be an alpha male. But you have to do this correctly. Don't misconstrue this as you have to be a controlling jerk. You have to play to her cavewoman instincts, but that doesn't mean that you have to drag her around by her hair and beat her with a club.
It means that you have to have the alpha qualities that subconsciously creates attraction. There are ways to do this when you're out in the field dating, and then there are ways to do it when you're in a relationship.
But usually it requires to undoing the damage that's been done to your perceived alpha state. That damage is basically called betacization. Your wife, unwittingly has done this to you, and has broken you down to try to make you what she "thought" that she wanted in her conscious mind. This however simply turned you into exactly what she doesn't want.
It's like mind working against natural instinct, and it's as real as gravity. It's the reason that you're saying "my wife is not attracted to me".
You need to learn how to undo what you've been doing wrong before you ever have a chance to stop saying and thinking my wife is not attracted to me.
The problem is that if she's not attracted to you, then who is she attracted to?
Have you nearly had it with your marriage because you're saying my wife complains about everything?
If your wife is complaining about everything then I know how frustrating that can be.
It sounds like there's a bit of a problem with control in the marriage. It's time you get the upper hand a bit, and get control of your marriage.
The Truth to Why You're Saying My Wife Complains About Everything...
There's something that's true about every marriage in the world. Some people like to deny it, but the truth is that someone always has more control in a marriage that another. It's very rarely ever a 50/50 thing. It's usually more like the old 80/20 principal.
Now here the thing that most men get wrong... They think that to have control in a relationship means that they have to dominate the wife in an abusive way, and nothing could be further from the truth.
In all actuality, if you're saying my wife complains about everything, then you're saying that your wife is in control, and has learned that when she complains you apparently jump to her beck and call.
She's got you conditioned, it's worked over and over, and now she's realized (whether she realizes it or not) that this works, and that it's the thing to do. She will therefore use this over and over to get what she wants. She is controlling you with her complaining.
But there's a much better and more fun way to be in control of the relationship, and actually when it happens your wife will be not only happier than ever, but way more attracted to you than ever before. It's one of the greatest things in the world, and it works like crazy.
The reason it works is that it relies on the principals of the subconscious mind, as well and more importantly on the primitive brain. Believe it or not there is sound scientific reason why your wife would rather YOU be in control on a subconscious level, and SHE may not even realize it. It's quite astounding once you start making the changes necessary, as long as you're doing it the right way.
The Most Important Thing to Start Doing TODAY If You're Saying My Wife Complains About Everything
So the number #1 thing that you must start (or should I actually say STOP) doing is...
Do NOT React to Your Wife's Complaining!
I mentioned above, that she's conditioned to you reacting.
So for example, let's look at a simple specific example of a reason why you might say my wife complains about everything. Taking out the garbage is universal. We all hear it about the garbage.
Therefore let's say it's 5pm and that your wife complains because the garbage is not taken out yet, when she "asked you to do it this morning". Normally you might argue a little bit and say, "I'm getting to it, it's not that big of a deal". And you'll fight her on it, and then usually end up taking it out anyway just to quiet her down about it.
Well first of all, don't even bother arguing about it. Don't react, don't get mad, and don't do it right away. If she's so adamant about it she'll do it herself. Now usually a wife will do it themselves, just to make you feel guilty. Don't react to that either. Don't say a word, just let it go. I'm not saying you can't take out the garbage, or that you shouldn't. But wait, until your darn well ready.
Everytime you react, you're failing a very important test, a test that puts her back in charge.
If you want to be able to eventually stop saying my wife complains about everything, then you've got to get through the testing phase first that your wife will put you through.
Nikah is a matrimonial contract in Islamic marriage. Moslem couples which are deciding to get into a marriage life must get through Nikah procession in which this is the moment where couple states their promises and get the agreement from the witnesses, usually the parent or closest family member. And in this age, where everything is digitalized, Moslem can also utilize the technology for their marriage, such as the internet. Well, this isn't about to hold a marriage via online, instead this is all about to ease them finding the life partner via online to take him/her into a real Nikah or marriage procession in Islamic way.
This is true and many had witnesses as well as experienced how they got really been helped in finding the best partner for their life by entering such an Islamic marriage site. So far, different with the dating sites which are only providing online chatting service for fun, the Islamic marriage sites come as a solution for those whom are seriously seeking for good man/woman for marriage purpose. And of course these are designed only for Moslem to find another Moslem as their life partner. This is considered as the best solution available for adult Moslem to get known other Moslem singles locally in purpose for marriage.
We all know how complicated it would be to find such a nice person as partner life, especially to find one with the same thought and faith. And such Islamic marriage sites are there to accommodate single Moslems best in finding the right man or woman as their partner of life. You can always count on them for fully Islamic way of getting into marriage with features to ease you to know closer about each person without crossing the Islamic values along the way. This is the safest way for parents to find the best one for their adult son or woman safely.
So, if you're on the age for matrimonial Nikah while the limited time you have in everyday blocked you from finding any good Moslem single to take as a life partner, you may try these marriage websites though. As I explored the internet for such a good, legal, and trusted Islamic marriage website, there I found many moslem matrimonial websites, including Indian marriage services, Arab and Turkish matrimonial and even Russian moslems who started their project for Islamic dating online. You can easily to browse and get to know with other Moslem singles from all around the world for marriage. Many had experienced such service and successfully to hold marriage with other they met on the Islamic marriage site.