Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Are affairs ok in a relationship?


A complete dissatisfaction in relationship between couples is quite a familiar trend these days. However, an interesting study has come up in support of these infidel link-ups. According to various expert psychologists, men who keep mistresses can really improve their marriage true or reliable fact.. lets have a view of this situation.

Experts say, men who are still very much in love and it can be liberating for women. Infidelity is not merely a proof of love. It is just a source of completing your sexual desires which you are not getting from your partner. So, when it comes to changing your marriage then it becomes very difficult to decide. As love and desire are two different aspects. Love is beyond desires.. it is something which is very sacred and on the other hand, you force yourself to love to complete your desires. Thus, when it comes to reliability, then you stand by your spouse. And, its just that most of the couples are working so they hardly have any time to share some romantic thoughts with each other. Some women say that since they work in office most of the times, so its quite obvious that they may get attracted to their colleagues. And men often defend their affairs by saying that their wives work in different cities to attain higher positions, so whats their fault.. and if having an affair, which can satisfy them and can change their mood, then its not wrong at all. But again there is still a bunch of couples who still believe in the trust factor. They say having an affair is a mockery of faithfulness in a relationship. They further state that if an affair is to be judged by the number of affairs you have then why to get married.. if you want to enjoy life without any responsibility and commitment then stay single and enjoy anything without fear and stress. There is no need to be a cribber all the time. So, at the end of the day its up to you that how you presume things and how well you feel with these extra-martial affairs. As after all, its your conscience t

2 comments:

  1. ROMANCE-GIST
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