The Friend to girlfriend secrets.

What if you had the power to take any girl of your choice, I guess I won't right then to ask what would you do with it? My guess is, you will spell doom for the women folk, or perhaps just play good with that chance at freedom; the unfathomed synergy to getting what you want, the way you want it. Surely, I know how it feels. Especially when you come face to face with a very hard position, whereby, the girl you so desire to date (have a relationship with) has placed the 'let's just be friends' card before you. As it may be, the both of you probably have something great going on; you absolutely love hanging out, being together with her, beyond a shadow of a doubt...but, she just does not consider taking that leap with you. You get stuck in the mud.      
Sometimes, you may even discover she feels the same way too...that is to say, she likes you, but ONLY as a friend. You find this as a very terrible habit to live with. A dagger to your heart. But then, you seemed cool about it, but beneath that external façade, deep within you, you know you want something ‘much more’ than that. Not just to be friends, but lovers!      
In truth, you are convinced that your heart longs to get past the “ friends” stage and be that guy she “falls for” more than anything else, and you're probably shaking your head, confused as hell and feeling terribly unsure on what to do to progress to the ‘next level’ with her. This feeling can even drive you nuts, making you do crazy stuffs that makes people wonder if you're sick or something. You Feel Like You're About To EXPLODE.  You're falling madly for her… you just know she's "the one" . She is the one who causes your palms to sweat at the slightest thoughts of her, your heart to beat so fast like it's going to pop out of your chest. And as your affection for her grows stronger by the day, so does your feelings of insecurity and rife, perhaps because you just can not know for sure whether or not she felt the same way, and even if she does, you don't know how to make her fall for you. This is very hard, and indeed painful.